Student killed by train
may have been distracted
November 18, 2007
By BILL BIRD Staff writer
The
blink-of-an-eye passing of his elder son has left Jim Twist bereft -- not lost,
exactly, but in some way now and forever incomplete.
"I was his
chauffeur," Twist said, smiling at the bittersweet memory of the hours
spent driving and driving and driving with his son, North Central College
junior Dan Twist, who was struck and killed last week by a train. "I feel
like half of my job as a dad has just been taken out from under me. I really
thought Dan would be my running (around) buddy for the next 30 years."
Dan Twist must
have seemed something of an oddball to some of his peers. The 22-year-old did
not hold a driver's license, needed three years to earn a degree from a local
junior college and dealt on a daily basis with a slight speech impediment.
But where some
undoubtedly saw disability, the Twist family and members of their inner circle
saw only beauty and achievement. Dan toiled tirelessly to rise to the rank of
Eagle Scout while in high school, graduated from Triton Community College in
River Grove while working there as an educational aide and immersed himself in
his studies at North Central College, where he quickly became a fixture at
WONC-FM, the school's student-run radio station.
He accomplished
all that and more while living with Asperger syndrome, a milder form of autism
sometimes marked by difficulty with social interaction and limited outside
interests.
"There are
kids with his disability who would not have been juniors in college, who would
not have gone as far in scouting as he did," Jim Twist said of his son.
"When he was a kid, if you looked at him through a kid's eyes, you
probably didn't 'get' him very much. But people, through an adult's eyes, 'got'
him."
The perfect storm
Jim Twist, his wife Judy, and their
younger son Mike, are still reeling from the cruel confluence of circumstances
that brought their son and brother Tuesday morning to the place where the
Burlington Northern Santa Fe Railway tracks intersect with Loomis Street north
of downtown Naperville.
Loomis Street
had been Dan's lifeline to North Central College. He would ride a commuter
train from the family's home in near-west suburban Brookfield to Naperville's
Fourth Avenue depot.
Jim Twist said
his son knew that by following it south, Loomis Street would bring him to the
North Central campus.
Perhaps there
had been some sort of Asperger-related distraction, his father theorized.
Perhaps Dan was humming or singing along through his headphones with KISS or
Queen, the rock 'n' roll bands whose music he kept in heavy rotation on his
portable compact disc player. Or perhaps it had been something else entirely.
Dan, in any
case, apparently never saw the lowered railroad crossing gates and the
pulsating red lights when he stepped into the path of a pair of locomotives
speeding toward Aurora.
Jim Twist
discounts speculation his son might have taken his own life.
"No, you
don't commit suicide after signing up for sessions with the radio station"
to guarantee programming throughout the college's coming Thanksgiving break,
nor do you plan an extra session in a speech class, as his son had done, he
said.
"It was a
combination of factors" that sealed his son's fate, Jim Twist said.
"It was the perfect storm."
Trying to be strong
The Twists are finding considerable
solace in family, friends and their faith.
"Everyone's
trying to be as strong as possible," Jim Twist said. "We're basically
being reminded of how many friends we have, and how many people had good
feelings about Dan and how many friends Dan had."
"He had
sort of a groundswell of popularity that we weren't aware of" until very
recently, Jim Twist said of his son. Dan, unbeknownst to his parents, had
created his own page on the popular Facebook.com Web site, and had tallied 237
"connections" with others in cyberspace.
"He was
just a good guy," his dad said.